Tony Miceli

It was good to hear "welcome home" from the man behind the customs booth. It was great to see both of my girls & Sam... and see balloons and a poster that said "welcome home". However I knew that 'welcome home' would soon be replaced with many difficult hours. Tony Miceli, one of the greatest guys I have ever met found out earlier this week that his son, Clinton Miceli was killed in a bicycle accident. I wasn't worried about writing a funeral or finding my way through the streets of Chicago to find the funeral home. My heart was just broke for my brother. His treasured son had been snatched away from life so quickly. I fought to control my emotions as I prayed and talked with Tony.

A pastor has similar emotions than a parent at times. As a parent I sit on the edge of my seat while attending Kayla's dance recital. I know how badly she has worked for this night. Although I cringe at the hours of the recital when there are 40 dances and she is only in 6 (that's another blog!) I want her to do well because I know she wants to do well. When Erica is taking her finals and her GPA matters to her auto insurance, job placement and where she attends college next, I want her to do well because it matters to her.

When a church family member faces a crisis like Tony did this week - you want the church (the body of Christ) to shine -- and you did! From the Men of Faith to the children's ministry team - from staff to Tony's small group -- you called, sent flowers and most important dozens attended the wake and funeral. When I was giving my final good-bye to Tony yesterday after all the events; he said with deep emotion and tears - "Pastor Eric, I feel so supported with my church family." It was as if Erica got an "A" or Kayla danced perfectly - I was so happy to be your pastor. You shined. Better yet - you were the body of Christ to a hurting brother.

Tony's pain is huge and the fact is he still needs incredible doses of love and care; I'm not worried because even though our lives will return to normal schedule I have a feeling you will continue being the church. I'm proud of you Shorewood Church of God. Love, Dad

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